Off The Reservation

Sort of dated one. Can't say I fell in love.

It never ends up well. You have to question the class of a stripper for one. Not saying strippers themselves can't be classy. Secondly, would you be ok with knowing that she's out giving lapdances, making dudes moist in their britches while you're sitting at home watching Seinfeld reruns? I assume everyone likes Seinfeld reruns like me. Even if you're out having some drinks with your friends, you still know what she's doing in the back of your mind.

Basically it's not a good idea. I told the chick I was seeing that we could never be serious as long as she's a stripper. Not that I expected her to quite for me/us, just being honest. It ended fine. We're not friends or anything but waive and say hi in passing.

My advice? Have some fun, but then move on.

I see.

Well even more so, the last sentence in my previous post is the best option.

You have to look at this realistically. She's only stripping to pay her way through nursing school. Once she graduates, you'll be good to go!

This thread basically echo's my life. I do not want to put my personal stuff out there so......

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I dated one when I was 19. Never serious but, she taught me alot of fun stuff and my wife thanks me for it.

They can be good at getting you to pay for a lotta stuff, then when you're tapped, seeyawouldn'twannabeya! Happened to some of my military buddys way back when. They got fooked, but never got laid. Caution here Grasshopper.

Strippers do not make good house pets. Period.

Love this thread. Thanks for bringing some life to OTR.

All of the input is greatly appreciated. I've been warned, but holy cow is she hot......trying soooo harrdddd to be smart about it. But well, you know there's only so much the brain can do in these situations. She's nice and she doesn't seem all that interested in letting me pay for everything..... I'll provide more details as they come.

Keep it (the advice) coming!

One of my best friends from childhood i just recently found out is a stripper. She was the quietest girl in school, nicest churchgoing girl you could ever meet, but she had some daddy issues, and well the rest is history, is still the nicest girl on the planet, and has a family and 3 wonderful children. So it's totally possible to get lucky and land a real human being that just happens to strip.

My brother is currently dating not one but two strippers. He would also be in the category of not looking for a stripper and least likely to date one....with that said.... Both are nice but in the end you have to remember that it takes a certain type of person that is willing to take their clothes off and grind on a guy...FOR A LIVING.... That same thought process that feels it is normal to do this also happens to be one that leads to other things.that are poor decisions which seem very normal to them.

Easiest way to say it is the highs are really high but the lows are really low and increase in frequency as more time goes by.

Sorry man but I have to disagree. When you have children, you have a responsibility to them and it doesn't include humiliating them and having them lose respect for you. No matter how discrete you are word will get around in your social circle. Think back to your childhood...its bad enough when kids gross you out by making jokes about doing your mom but what if she's a stripper and you get teased all through high school for it? That's messed up. Find another way.